A Bride's Wedding Speech

Tuesday, November 13, 2018
Silver Pearl Seafood Restaurant Wedding Reception
Silver Pearl Seafood Restaurant Wedding Reception
Silver Pearl Seafood Restaurant Wedding Reception
Silver Pearl Seafood Restaurant Wedding Reception
Silver Pearl Seafood Restaurant Wedding Reception
Silver Pearl Seafood Restaurant Wedding Reception

Wedding Reception at Silver Pearl Seafood Restaurant
Photos by Clarzzique Photography and Videography

When we started planning the wedding, I had already known that I would do my own speech. I am a firm believer that my life was just as important as Hai's, and that I should get the same opportunity to thank my loved ones and express my gratitude.
Hai was so lovely in timing his speech to be shorter so I could say everything I wanted to say. I forgot that there was the possibility he would have me in happy tears just before I made my speech, so I was already pretty emotional when I started. My speech was timed to be about twenty minutes long because of the crying and hugging I did, but I have absolutely no regrets! I love my friends and family!


Thank you Hai.

Well what can I say, I'm just so bloody happy right now. And now I get to express my gratitude to everyone here tonight. 

First of all I'd like to thank those that traveled far and wide to be here. Those that came in from Melbourne, Perth, Vietnam and Japan, I'm so touched that you are here to celebrate our special day.

The biggest thank you to my family. We are not the largest one, but we are full of heart. I'm so touched that we have come together to celebrate our Cambodian and Vietnamese Culture yesterday and today. The amount of calls and texts I received offering help and advice has touched my heart.

Mum, thank you for everything. You are so strong and humble. I am who I am because of you. I admire your strength to raise me and Vanna on your own and you taught me that I am strong and independent too. You taught me from very young that "I don't need no man" to complete me. I am very proud to be your daughter. [bow to mum and family]

I'd also like to thank Hai's family, for being so supportive and helpful. You have welcomed me with open arms and taken me under your wings. I especially want to thank Hai’s Mum for always feeding me and worrying about me when I am sick. I know Hai is a caring, strong and humble man because you have raised him. I am so happy to now be officially part of the Trinh family. Thank you. [bow to family and especially acknowledge Oanh and Yen]

To those that I have worked with at Target, MHN trading, Costco and Hai & myself at The Star, we have made lifelong friends among all of you and I thank you for all your support over the years. Especially to Costco, thank you for your patience with me, and keeping me on my diet over the last year. Sandy, you are the worst culprit! [point playfully at Sandy]

Now on to this side, my Tas Squad friends. We've known each other for so long and your friendship has really shaped me into the person I am today. Alot of people like to comment on how we are still friends after we've finished high school 12 years ago. And I'm really proud of that. Your presence here today, makes my heart swell. Thank you.

I'd like to also have a special mention to Jaye, Erin and maid of honor Betty, hello! Thank you for being you. Your friendship has been so heart-warming , I am grateful to have met you and formed a close friendship based on eating out, dogs, hikes and celebrating life milestones in the most girliest of ways. 

And now, to my wonderful friends on this side of the table. The Scumbags! I want to thank you all for accepting me, little Nat Nat into your life. I've never met such a fantastic bunch of people who are open, funny and understanding. You guys have honestly changed my life for the better. I only hope I can enrich your lives just as you've enriched mine.

A special shout out to the Battle Crusaders, who have really embraced me into this quirky family. Thanks to Daryl for having all the patience in the world to deal with us, and John, who is also known as DJ sLay!! [embarrass John]

Thank you to the Wifeys - Betty Thyda and Ying, for always lending a listening ear and for supporting me through this stressful time. Your weekly check-ups on me have really helped over the past year.
I want to make out a special shout out to Lisa. Hi Lisa. We went through the emotional ups and downs of wedding planning and I want to thank you for all your help over the last year. I'm so proud of you. 

Now to my Bridal Party-
Oh, I have the best bridal party. You are here because we love you guys so much. Your support has been comforting even during my very rare Bridezilla moments.
Thank you for all of your hard work and for just looking darn good tonight.

Sang and Roberto, thank you for all your enthusiasm and advice, your late nights helping us set up, it has helped keep both of us sane.
A special mention to Mini for arriving from London one year in advance just in time for the wedding. And for just being awesome.
Mish, thank you for being Hai’s best friend, I know you vouched for me before Hai even met me, and your seal of approval makes me so happy.
And Pong, thank you for also being one of the first people to welcome me into this Scumbag life and for supporting me and Hai. You are the ultimate scumbag but I can’t imagine anyone better to be Hai’s best man tonight.

Michael and Anna, thank you for being you. You guys are strong, inspiring and caring friends and your support has carried me in this life and through this wedding planning.
A Special thanks to Vanna, my little sister. Your strength is to be admired and that has helped me get through alot of tough times during the planning. Thanks for doing all the leg work at home, I’m really grateful you are my sister. [hug Vanna]
And to Reeni and Betty, thank you for being by my side, it has been a wonderful journey. I couldn’t ask for better Maids of Honours who have supported me and Hai. You both are kind and caring people, you girls are my family.

All of you guys are my family.

Hai ----- what can I say. There are not enough words to express how much I love you. 
I know I tell you everyday but now its so much more meaningful because you are now my husband.

We have been waiting for this day to come, and your support has kept me afloat. For those that haven’t seen it, Hai made that Donut Wall from scratch [point to Donut Wall], he made the seating chart, he bought all the suits and orange bows, and he took on alot of overtime at the Opera House. I am so grateful that you were to work as hard as me to make this special day happen. 
You are kind, caring, strong, passionate and have the biggest heart. You have lent your shoulder to cry on or a listening ear, not just for me, but for your friends and family as well. That’s the type of person you are. People confide in you and you can step into their shoes and articulate their feelings into words. And you understand me in a way no one could. This is one of the many reasons why I love you.

Now when we got engaged, it was before your 30th birthday, and we had drove 9 hours to the very edge of Victoria to our campsite. Now knowing our luck, we got bogged in mud. Hai’s Jeep tipped 30 degrees and we we were stuck. I remember how stressed we were, Hai trying to dig mud out from under his tyres, wedging crappy branches, swearing as he did it. I was outside, trying to call people to come get us. It was 8.30pm, so I got alot of “Sorry we are in Melbourne, it will take us 4 hours to get there or we can come in the morning”. We even got told by the Park Ranger that we should just call a friend. I was like “What friend?!” 
We are 9 hours away from Sydney! But I have to admit, my first thoughts came to Ronny. Ronny still owed Hai a huge favour and I heavily considered it. [point playfully at Ronny]
Eventually someone came for us, And that’s when Hai decided to ......propose to me. He realized that there wouldn’t be a more memorable time then this.
So with me standing on fresh Kangaroo shit, swearing just moments earlier, getting bit by mozzies, wearing a blanket. There was Hai, mud streaked across his face and all over his clothes, his Jeep behind him drowning in the river, getting down on one knee.
And when we got out, our first meal as an engaged couple was some instant noodles at a dodgy campsite. We slept in the car that night holding hands, the other hand scratching our mozzie bites.

And we were extremely happy doing just that, and that’s why I love you. That’s the type of people we are . We are not fancy people, and we find joy with each other in any situation, no matter how unlucky.

We may not be rich in money, but we are rich in experiences, in friendship and in family, happiness, support and love. And I would not have it any other way. I love you very much Hai, I only hope to make you as happy as you make me.

Thank you. Cheers!

5 comments :

  1. Congrats on your wedding! Beautiful words for such a special and personal moment. Sending you both well wishes.
    LaToya
    www.toyastales.blogspot.com

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  2. congratulations.... You penned down your emotions nicely.
    www.stylebasket.in

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  3. Wonderful post, dear! You look gorgeous!
    Hugs ♥

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